Congratulations! So you decided to take that big step, getting married and with vows of spending all of your life with that one special person.
Here is a starter pack on how to write your own vows
Marriage is a very special and holy ritual that allows the bride and the groom to express their spedial love commitments to one another and to begin to create a stable, satisfying and fulfilled family unit.
Composing your special ring vows, then, will be a very important first step and we are here to help you.
A man and woman marry with the intention of staying together for life.
You fall in love and then you get married and you live happily ever after. Right?
It turns out that this view of the world may be just a little naïve because it leaves out the most important part. To a teenager it is all about romantic love but on the other hand, to an adult it is about the big word ‘Commitment’ too.
This is about about holding and growing in love, being with one another for a lifetime despite the fact that both partners have certain set characteristics and particular ways of being, doing and seeing that may change over time as each partner grows. It is about supporting one another as you grow and making a declaration of this intention of commitment and support and undying love.
How to express your ring vows in writing
Marriage can have a tremendous number of advantages: stability, financial security, unity and togetherness, infinite trust, appreciation and support. However, it could also have disadvantages. There may be cause for conflict and disagreements over time. Marriage means that everything is shared. Sharing means that every important decision involves the couple becoming a team to decide upon it. If both of them do not agree, then problems arise. Most people enjoy having freedom in their lives. Instead marriage can sometimes feel like the opposite as it often forces a great deal of half measure and understanding.
It is very relieving to acknowledge that there is a person who loves you and only you no
matter what and who lives to be with you. That sort of commitment can give you tremendous comfort and confidence for you and it may reassure you that they are there.
Lets get to the exciting part!!!! The main part of your wedding day. Don’t tell me you have no idea what I’m talking about! Your wedding vows of course!!
The part where you and your loved one openly declare each other’s feelings and promises .
At your wedding ceremony the exchange of wedding rings is arguably one of the most exciting moments of the whole day and will probably be remembered for the whole of your life. So it is very important to spend some time thinking about the vows you will exchange on that very special day.
Exchanging vows with your loved one is one of the most memorable and delicate parts of the wedding service.
It is traditional to exchange wedding rings after saying vows. As rings are seen as marriage symbols, it symbolises your union and the love that you share together. Words which are said during a ring exchange should mirror the couple’s hope and promises for their marriage. Exchanging wedding rings vows that can be said at this moment and choosing the perfect thing to say and how to say it takes some preparation so spend some time thinking about what you want to say. 
Every successful couple knows how important humor is to a relationship. Spice up your wedding with some humorous wedding vows.
Use wedding jokes as a source of inspiration
This can be a great way to add a bit of zing to that special occasion as well as an ice-breaker for your wedding guests as you add some fun energy to the occasion with a few extra laughs – but only if you feel it is suitable.
It can add a touch of fresh air to what might otherwise sometimes be a traditional wedding that is a little stuffy. You might for example add a funny wedding vow to your promises to each other like promising to wake your partner up bright and early on his morning off, or to bring the dog to visit the boss at work, or making a promise to not squeeze the toothpaste tube in the middle.
Weddings don’t have to always be a sombre and serious affair. Let it express your personalities and let it be a chance for everyone to see your humorous side. It will create fun memories that you will cherish for many years to come.
It is traditional for a couple to exchange wedding rings after they say their vows.
Since these rings are symbols of the marriage, the words said during a ring exchange should reflect the couple’s hopes for their marriage.
It is important to prepare beforehand so that the ceremony goes as smoothly as possible and will be remembered fondly for many years to come
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